8 Essential Songs for Sexy Vibes, with RebaTheDiva
We've refined our ‘Essential Songs’ series, zeroing in on scenarios that crave a perfect playlist for creating the sexiest of vibes! We hope you enjoy it.
What is your name, or public persona? Reba C. Thomas (aka RebaTheDiva)
What are you best known for? I'm best known for teaching pleasure-positive sex ed workshops (as seen on TLC's 90 Day Fiance: The Last Resort), coaching/mentoring sexuality professionals, and organizing the Sexology Summit.
Describe your personality in three words? Bubbly. Charismatic. Sweet.
What is your favorite sextech, or pleasure product? Right now, my favorite sex tech is Bluetooth enabled. I love that technology gives us the ability to be intimate with each other across such long and short distances, especially since the pandemic!
Who would you enjoy being stranded on a deserted island with? I would love to be stranded on an island with a very talented chef, an equally talented musician, and an engineer. We'd eat great food, make music, and brainstorm until we figured out how to get out.
What is one thing you learned / or unlearned about sex, that changed the game for you? I learned to prioritize my pleasure and not be done with sex until I was satisfied.
Learning how to please myself and advocate for my pleasure changed the game so much for me in a few ways:
One, I stopped faking orgasms. Two, I started to have better sex! And three, I became more selective about my partners by having more conversations upfront about pleasure before it even gets to the bedroom.
So sure, my pool of potential partners got a little smaller, but the quality was infinitely better.
What is your favorite movie or show to “Netflix + Chill” to? Right now, it's Survival of the Thickest. Michelle Buteau is funny AF, and the show sparks some very interesting conversations about dating and power dynamics that I am so here for.
Reba’s 8 Essential Songs for Creating Sexy Vibes:
Seductive DriveTime: When it comes to driving, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
Dance & Desire: What is your favorite song to dance to, whether for a private performance or heating up the dance floor?
Fuck 2 This: What is your favorite sexy song to fuck to?
Pillow Talk: When it comes to pillow talk, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
Dinner, Friends & Feels: You’re hosting a seductive dinner party with close friends, what song instantly creates a vibe?
Phenomenal (feat. Doechii) - Janelle Monae
Honestly this WHOLE ENTIRE ALBUM is on repeat in my house.
Tropical Temptations: When indulging in beachy/poolside pleasures or sultry resort-style activities, what sexy song instantly creates a vibe?
Solo Sex: What is your favorite sultry song for indulging in solo-exploration?
Rituals of Desire: When getting ready for one of these sultry scenarios, what song instantly creates a vibe?
On it - Jaszmine Sullivan and Ari Lennox
Where can the people find you hanging out online?
Website: rebathediva.com
IG: @rebathediva.ceo
Are there any projects or promotions you’d like us to share?
Book a workshop or coaching session with me or my team at sexpertconsultants.com! ✨
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