8 Essential Songs for Sexy Vibes, with Dakota Ramppen
We've refined our ‘Essential Songs’ series, zeroing in on scenarios that crave a perfect playlist for creating the sexiest of vibes! We hope you enjoy it.
What is your name, or public persona? Dakota Ramppen, Get Real With Dakota
What are you best known for? I’m best known for making massage candles and being a spicy, tough love relationship coach. People come to me because they know I’m going to keep it real, but provide a clear vision and plan for helping them manifest and maintain their #relationshipgoals.
Describe your personality in three words? Spicy, Transparent, and Lover-Girl.
What is your favorite sextech, or pleasure product? Foria’s Awaken Arousal Oil. It’s like a viagra lube for people with vulvas. It’s made with CBD and a blend of organic ingredients like kava, vanilla, and cardamom. It smells yummy and feels like your pussy is getting a hug.
Who would you enjoy being stranded on a deserted island with? Doja Cat. We can smoke weed and whine our waists on the island. One of us is bound to have a lighter, so at least we can stay warm at night.
What is one thing you learned / or unlearned about sex, that changed the game for you? The one thing I learned that changed the game for me is that you can say “no.” Growing up, I was a yes-girl. I didn’t know how to advocate for my sexual desires and limits. I moved into a lot of situations that weren’t safe for me emotionally or physically, but saying “no!” has never felt better! ...And having someone enthusiastically receive your “no” is the cherry on top.
What is your favorite movie or show to “Netflix + Chill” to? Star Trek: Next Generation. The outfits, the lessons in the episodes! Don’t judge; just give it a try.
Dakota’s 8 Essential Songs for Creating Sexy Vibes:
Seductive DriveTime: When it comes to driving, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
I nipped my toxicity a long time ago, but this song lets me live my bad girl fantasies. She sings about someone playing hard to get and wanting them even more because of it. The tension, oof!
Dance & Desire: What is your favorite song to dance to, whether for a private performance or heating up the dance floor?
This song is the perfect balance of house music and Afro beats, two of my favorite things. Hips go crazy!
Fuck 2 This: What is your favorite sexy song to fuck to?
This is definitely more of a darker rock vibe, but the lyrics are nasty. “I want to fuck you like an animal. I want to feel you from the inside.” Like c’mon?!
Pillow Talk: When it comes to pillow talk, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
This song is slow and soft. Embracing our oneness and accepting that we are who we are. Instantly puts me at ease and in connection with my divine feminine.
Dinner, Friends & Feels: You’re hosting a seductive dinner party with close friends, what song instantly creates a vibe?
The lyrics are a lil’ sad, but the song itself is beautiful. Sultry, powerful, and smooth. Yum!
Tropical Temptations: When indulging in beachy/poolside pleasures or sultry resort-style activities, what sexy song instantly creates a vibe?
The viral dance is meant for the beach. The whining, hips popping, and sweet lyrics give the summer love.
Solo Sex: What is your favorite sultry song for indulging in solo-exploration?
The drum beat, horns and synths slowly come together to build more and more layers. The pulsing grooves take me on a journey to edging deeper.
Rituals of Desire: When getting ready for one of these sultry scenarios, what song instantly creates a vibe?
A Woman Is A God - Tommy Genesis
This song has a sick beat, and the lyrics are fun! “If a man is a man, then a woman is a God.” I could dance to this all night, and it puts me in the mood to step further into my sexual power.
Where can the people find you hanging out online?
Website: getrealwithdakota.com
TikTok: @grwdakota_
Are there any projects or promotions you’d like us to share?
Shop for massage candles or book a session or workshop at getrealwithdakota.com. Plus, enjoy a 20% discount on Foria products at foriawellness.com when you use my code: DAKOTAR. ✨
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