13 Essential Songs for Sexy Vibes, with Nick Woof
What is your name, or public persona? Nick Woof
What are you best known for? As the founder of The Bromance Club and Bator Bro, the edgiest erotic party in London. I also host a weekly radio show for sexual wellness called Bator's Journey on X platform.
Describe your personality in three words? Creative, Curious and Charismatic.
What is your favorite sextech, or pleasure product? I promote Erotic Male Worship (EMW) kink, which focuses on body contact, touch and self/mutual pleasure.
My favourite products are: The Steel Cockring by Primal - ergonomically designed for long wear. It looks and feels great. Albolene - a quality lube for marathon edging sessions that’s actually a make-up remover, but glides beautifully for the penis + hands.
Who would you enjoy being stranded on a deserted island with? Abigail from Triangle of Sadness (film). She knows how to fish, cook and provide strong leadership. Being with an Asian mama, would feel so familiar, like home. I grew up with strong women around me, and they were resourceful in every situation.
What is one thing you learned / or unlearned about sex, that changed the game for you? Great sex can be achieved with hands, touch and energy. I had the most incredible orgasm from a tantric masseur, who released blocked energies and brought me to a 'dry orgasm' through just touch. It was mind blowing. Then I discovered Taoist sexual energy (Mantak Chia) and Tantra, showing me that sex is all energetic connections. Oral and penetrative sex is not the only form of deep intimacy.
What is your favorite movie or show to “Netflix + Chill” to? I have not done “Netflix + Chill” before — usually get straight down to business! If I could choose, it would be an erotic thriller like Death Becomes Her (‘92). I love the 90s thriller genre. There’s a dark sense of humour and sexiness to it.
Nick’s 13 Essential Songs for Creating Sexy Vibes:
Seductive DriveTime: When it comes to driving, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
Such a groove. This song got me through the pandemic with it's uplifting tune and twisted bitter sweet irony. It captures a reflective and moody feeling, which makes me feel like crying sometimes. Trying to hold it together and to be optimistic about the future at the same time.
Twerk & Werk: What is your favorite sexy song to dance to?
The beat is down-tempo, smooth and rhythmic. It gives a soft nudge for the hips to start moving. The chorus is yearning and sexy. SZA's vocals are floating effortlessly alongside the heavy syncopation.
Fuck 2 This: What is your favorite sexy song to fuck to?
Moody and atmospheric with lots of open spaces. It allows the connection, breathing and eye contact with your partner to really find its place. The song builds up slowly with no vocals, and doesn't take center stage to the action at hand.
DTF Date Night-In: What song is on repeat during a DTF date night-in?
This 10 minute track goes on a journey, starting with heartbeats morphing into pulsing loops — new layers being added throughout. New hooks and unexpected turns. The repetition of "I want you" becomes a chant, a ritual and a trance. Its reference of "fast for 30 days" and spiritual yearning of one another.
DTF Date Night-Out: What song is on repeat during a DTF date night-out?
It Seems to Hang On (12" Disco Mix) — Ashford & Simpson
This song is tight. The vocal exchange between Nick and Valerie building the song together. It revolves around this indescribable good feeling that keeps following a shadow. A great song for a date, it's about chemistry and giving into the moment.
Pillow Talk: When it comes to pillow talk, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
A jazz standard classic with a twist — whimsical and just tickles through the senses. The metronome like-rhythm with the piano playfully creating new shapes around the song. With autumn leaves symbolizing the beginning of a new season, leading to a softer reflective energy.
Private Dance: What is your favorite song to give or receive a private dance to?
Something About Us — Daft Punk
A strong groove with quirky and honest lyrics. "I might not be the right one, it might not be the right time" has an urgency and teases us with warm synths and keys, allowing for a slow and sensual dance.
Dinner, Friends & Feels: You’re hosting a seductive dinner party with close friends, what song instantly creates a vibe?
Gypsy Woman (Quarantine Session) — Tom Mitch
Club classic, stripped back to funky guitar and fresh, warm beats. It's familiar, yet much more intimate with this version. Enough to get a vibe going, especially when the bass kicks. I’m sure heads and shoulders will be bopping as the tune finds its feet.
Resort Rendezvous: When indulging in outdoor resort-style activities, what seductive song instantly creates a vibe?
Baby I Don’t Mind — Sunni Colon
Guitar and bass that will lift energies and people in a subtle way. Vocals sultry and atmospheric in production. This track feels like 4pm sunshine. Just enough light and heat to relax.
Solo Sex: What is your favorite sultry song for indulging in solo-exploration?
The drum beat, horns and synths slowly come together to build more and more layers. The pulsing grooves take me on a journey to edging deeper.
Tropical Temptations: When indulging in beachy/poolside pleasures, what sexy song instantly creates a vibe?
Continuing the 4pm rays of sunshine. The whispering vocals fading and drifting in the production. It feels like wind blowing gently by the sand.
Sensory Playtime: When indulging in sensory playtime, what seductive song instantly creates a vibe?
Tropical Suite Sao Paolo — Poni Hoax
Psychedelic guitars transport to a space of openness, freeing the mind, unwinding and allowing new experiences to emerge.
Rituals of Desire: When getting ready for one of these sultry scenarios, what song instantly creates a vibe?
Warm sounds of guitar, bass, and soft vocals. "I don't wanna be anywhere else but here" conjures images of sunsets and the color red. Ready to go in deep session, heavy repetition.
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Any current or upcoming projects you’d like to share? We're running our monthly erotic edging event, Bator Bro (150 guys attended last month). We're a community promoting the art of edging, self pleasure and a sense of brotherhood for curious, bi, and gay men seeking sensual touch and taking their time to explore their own bodies in a safe space.
The Bator Bro back story: The Recon Podcast
The Bromance Club: thebromance.club
Twitter: @batorbrobmc
Instagram: @nickwoof.bmc
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