8 Essential Songs for Sexy Vibes, with Preciosa Janae (Pj)
Preciosa Janae, aka Pj
What is your name, or public persona, and what are your preferred pronouns? Pj from Kink In Kolor (She/They)
What are you best known for? Being a goofball? Haha, j/k, I bridge the gaps between communities, ideas, concepts, and more. My company expands that idea by being committed to advancing diversity, awareness, accessibility, and inclusion within alternative lifestyles. With a streamlined focus on BIPOC, LGBTQ+, and other marginalized communities, we aim to empower and amplify through a blend of educational resources, culturally rich productions, consultations, unconventional workshops, and branded creative content.
Describe your personality in three words? Driven. Badass. Extroverted AF.
What is your favorite sextech, or pleasure product? Violet Wand or my fun little vampire gloved cock cage (with weights)! #SadistsForTheWin
In all realness tho, I've been looking forward to finding a sextech product I love to add some fun games to my play 😉
Who would you enjoy being stranded on a deserted island with? Idris Elba, Tyler Blackburn, Nico Tortorella, Tessa Thompson, and H.E.R., while Antonio Banderas reads Smut.
For those who know me, I did not choose Jason because I am not a woman of the land! I am a glampalicious kween that loves the sun, pretty drinks, AC, and bug-less adventures—and we all know J. is not that guy, lmao.
What is one thing you learned / or unlearned about sex, that changed the game for you? I unlearned the misconception that climaxing is fast! It takes 12 minutes longer than everyone said it would, especially if you have chronic conditions. I learned that some folx believe bathing fully and regularly is optional (by fully I mean legs, a**hole, labia, balls, and for the sheathed—under the foreskin too). It's Wild! Scent is very important to me. I like to smell good, and I love peeps that smell phenomenal (such a turn-on)—a natural scent with good hygiene is a choice, but it's hot out, and some folx be ripe af.
What is your favorite movie or show to “Netflix + Chill” to? I'm an intimacy coordinator so I've seen A LOT for homework purposes 😜. The scenes with Carla, Christian, and Polo in Elite (subbed) are top tier.
Fun Fact: I used to think Netflix & Chill was literal, so I'd spend my time finding a great movie/show to watch, only for them to try to smash 5 minutes in. It was annoying and ruined the moment, #AutisticTraits. Now I'm like excuse me, I actually want to watch this, so we can fuck before or after because once I hit play, I'm invested. So much confusion y'all.
PJ’s 8 Essential Songs for Creating Sexy Vibes:
Seductive DriveTime: When it comes to driving, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
Miguel's "Adorn" was my first choice because...an all-white jaguar, cerulean eyes, and an accent to die for was a missed opportunity after a dope ass night into the sunrise, but THEN Avant's "Read Your Mind" came on and I was like DAWG!!!! I LOVE being able to look at someone in the eyes (in small bursts because autism) and SEE ALL of the things they wanna do to me from across the room. The chemistry is usually off the chain and whooo that night is a memory that makes you bite yo lip and cum a lil.
Dance & Desire: What is your favorite song to dance to, whether for a private performance or heating up the dance floor?
Propueste Indecente - Romeo Santos
When I used to dance (pre-diagnosis), this was one of my favorite songs to dance to! It's so sexy and bachata has always been super sensual to me—though this added a flair of tango to it and it's just chef's kiss! Also if you have never seen this man, GO WATCH THE MUSIC VIDEO! This song reminds me of a person that gives you that smile and you're like yep it's happening and idc 'cuz did you see that dimple? You did? Cool, your bed is where again?
Honorable Mention (HM): ICU — Coco Jones.
Fuck 2 This: What is your favorite sexy song to fuck to?
It's real as hell and I wish more people could actually be this honest. Also, the vocals are smooth like butter.
HM: Sex Therapy — Robin Thicke, because who doesn't want to be worshiped?
Dinner, Friends & Feels: You’re hosting a seductive dinner party with close friends, what song instantly creates a vibe?
Very Few Friends — Saint Levant
It's sexy in a layered way. Like, we're busy and got our own ish going on but when we come together...it's going down so hard. I also love that it's tied to his roots, it's creative, nuanced, and tells a story like most of my peeps 🙂
HM: This Is How We Do It — Montell Jordan ...only if we're keeping it platonically friendly and pulling up for a lil kickback with the homies.
Tropical Temptations: When indulging in beachy/poolside pleasures or sultry resort-style activities, what sexy song instantly creates a vibe?
I feel like this is the energy to have on vacay. Like let's do all the sexy things, make interesting decisions—that either end well or not so well, and have fantastic stories to tell. Either way, it'll be a fun ass RIDE.
HM: Girls Dem Sugar — Beenie Man
Solo Sex: What is your favorite sultry song for indulging in solo-exploration?
U Move, I Move — John Legend (feat. Jhene Aiko)
I heard this while taking a friend's class at a time when the world was slowly opening back up...it was still 6 feet of separation, but the energy in the room was palpable as people danced in their own little area. You could feel the desire for touch, for connectedness. It was safe and healing.
HM: I Get So Lonely — Janet Jackson. It was HOT and made my NB (non-binary) ass wanna invest in a suit and heels and bust out my inner Magic Michelle.
Rituals of Desire: When getting ready for one of these sultry scenarios, what song instantly creates a vibe?
The lyrics are so spot on while giving, 'It's time to worship a Goddess from the depths of our primal souls until we spill over into each other's essence.' Though Labrinths "All For Us" is a very close second for obvious reasons...but, again I didn't wanna be toooooooo on the nose. Also, I cheated a bit because my polyamorous ass needs options for every question haha.
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Sensations: Part Deux (An Immersive Kinksperience) will be coming back later this year! Also curious about the alt side of love, relationships, and sex? Grab one of my books at kinkinkolor.com and see what happens 🙂
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