13 Essential Songs for Sexy Vibes, with Ms. Mehgan Sapphire
What is your name, or public persona? Mehgan Sapphire
What are you best known for? Sapphire's Earplay, being an all-around radio personality with 14 years of experience in both the adult and mainstream media, and sharing sex positivity and wellness in my on-air work and advocacy online.
Describe your personality in three words? Unapologetic. Queer. Outspoken.
What is your favorite sextech, or pleasure product? OOOH this is tough, but honestly I am LOVING audio erotica lately. Sites like Dipsea and Afterglow have really been one on my recent forms of pleasure to enhance the physical aspect of sex.
Who would you enjoy being stranded on a deserted island with? I admire a lot of people but also love my privacy HAHA, so if I HAD to choose one person, it would probably be Keke Palmer. I feel like we share a similar personality in speaking our truth, not taking ourselves too seriously, while also displaying an easy-to-approach persona, which is rare in the entertainment world.
What is one thing you learned / or unlearned about sex, that changed the game for you? Vulnerability. Being polyamorous has truly helped me be vulnerable not just to my partners but everyone I encounter in life. There's something sexy about opening yourself up and being true to those willing to get to know the real YOU.
What is your favorite movie or show to “Netflix + Chill” to? LMAO honestly I don't "Netlfix N Chill". I set the mood with my music and conversation. Trust me, you would know I am DTF (consensually of course) 😉
Mehgan’s 13 Essential Songs for Creating Sexy Vibes:
Seductive DriveTime: When it comes to driving, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
No Bus — Lophiile, Col3trane, Amber Mark
This song just has a vibe within itself that makes you rethink who you allow to enter your body. Talk about vulnerable lyrics. Like: "So baby, don't trust me We both know that you don't love me But you said that you need honesty So be straight up, tell me what you want from me."
Twerk & Werk: What is your favorite sexy song to dance to?
If (Kaytranada Remix) — Janet Jackson
Two artists I love to vibe with 24/7, and when Kaytranada dropped this remix, all I could think is this song's meant to go from the dance floor to the bedroom floor.
Fuck 2 This: What is your favorite sexy song to fuck to?
Would You Mind? — Janet Jackson
Again, Janet sets a tone for me. And honestly there's so many more, check out my Sessions playlist on Spotify. I'd post the lyrics, but I HIGHLY suggest you listen and let the lyrics flow into your nasty mind.
DTF Date Night-In: What song is on repeat during a DTF date night-in?
Seconds of Pleasure — Van Hunt
Think a sweaty juke bar where you just want to slam your partner(s) to the wall.
DTF Date Night-Out: What song is on repeat during a DTF date night-out?
Girls Dem Sugar — Beenie Man, Mya
Sexy Dancehall vibes that make you wanna grind, bite a lip, and let that person know you're going home with them.
Pillow Talk: When it comes to pillow talk, what sultry song instantly creates a vibe?
Another song you just have to play and listen to.
Private Dance: What is your favorite song to give or receive a private dance to?
How You Want It? — Teyana Taylor, King Combs
Blindfold that lucky recipient and tell them in their ear how you wanna take it to the next level with a tease.
Dinner, Friends & Feels: You’re hosting a seductive dinner party with close friends, what song instantly creates a vibe?
Turnin' Me Up — BJ The Chicago Kid
Just sway to the beat and get the party hot and ready for a night of seduction.
Resort Rendezvous: When indulging in outdoor resort-style activities, what seductive song instantly creates a vibe?
It's Sade. Need I say more? Every time I hear it, I am instantly on an island of hedonism.
Solo Sex: What is your favorite sultry song for indulging in solo-exploration?
Again my Sessions playlist on Spotify has all my top jams to get me off, but this lyric alone gets me going when in solo mode: "I'd like to know what you think I am I'm not your woman, you're not my man You pawed the river then you built a dam."
Tropical Temptations: When indulging in beachy/poolside pleasures, what sexy song instantly creates a vibe?
Agua De Beber — Astrud Gilberto, Antonio Carlos Jobim
Bossa Nova jazz of the 50s/60s just sets a tone to let you freely sway. And takes your mind to an exotic location with an exotic drink to match.
Sensory Playtime: When indulging in sensory playtime, what seductive song instantly creates a vibe?
The album, 'The Velvet Rope' which features this song is what introduced my love and curiosity for BDSM.
Rituals of Desire: When getting ready for one of these sultry scenarios, what song instantly creates a vibe?
Feel Like Makin' Love — D'angelo
This song always gets me, and I am pretty sure it has to do with a sexy scene from The L Word.
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Any current or upcoming projects you’d like to share? Currently, my podcast Sapphire's Earplay is on hiatus in solidarity with those like myself affected by the SAG-AFTRA strikes. But you can also find me on the Mon App under @MsRadioSapphire where I will be hosting EXCLUSIVE chats!
Be sure to also check out Mehgan’s linktr.ee for more!
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